Hi Doriek, I understand well your current trial. When I first started practicing my faith again, my husband did not understand what was going on, as my conversion was dramatic and overnight. He was also a protestant.
I could tell he felt he "lost" his wife, and didn't understand the sudden change in my behaivor. In a house where there was nothing, all of a sudden we had holy water fonts, crucifixes, rosaries dangling from the car rearview mirror, Jesus staring at you from every room at every angle. I never once told him what to do. I never once lectured or even talked about what was going on inside of me. I just followed our Lady's messages and asked her to make me a "carrier of peace" and she did. I would invite him always to go with me, but if he said no I didn't push. I knew all would be in God's time. Sure enough, in God's time it all happened, and dramatically for him as well. (At Fr. Rookey's mass) later on he told me, "I saw how much peace you had, and I wanted that too." When our Lady asks us to be carriers of peace, she knows that no words or even deeds will bring them in, but the peace that the world cannot give.
She has a plan from heaven, and if we follow it everything will work itself out. "Jesus I trust in You"